Living Through a Renovation… With 2 Toddlers

We recently took on the endeavor of a bathroom and kitchen renovation. Which, now that it’s happening, feels a little insane, but this is our forever home and we felt it’s time to start making it our home with more than just fresh paint in the bedrooms.  

At first glance, the kitchen seems fine.  Cooking in it daily though, helps to pull back some of the layers of this crazy onion of a kitchen.  The seller had painted very old cabinets, replaced some of the hinges, added a new countertop and bought mid range stainless steel appliances that were dented floor models.  Ultimately, besides the counter, it was all an awesome kitchen facade.  

The worst part about the kitchen was the layout. With only about 20” of prep space it was my own home kitchen nightmare.  I make at least 3 meals a day that involve cutting boards and several food items sprawled about.  The daily use was a pain, holidays a shit show.

With our new layout plan there will be several feet of counter space to prep and shelving in the cabinets that pull out so nothing can get lost in the back like a Bermuda Triangle of kitchen space.  Plus a second oven!  We found a contractor we trusted, a parent at Reece’s preschool.  Now the “fun” would begin.  

You might think the stress of a renovation would start once demolition of the kitchen starts. No, no… Nope… No… You would be wrong.  Especially if you have children.  You have to make many decisions, and if you’re organized, you’ll want to have everything picked out (and in some cases ordered) in advance.  

Which leads me to stresses prior to demo day.  Trying to shop with young children running around the store is hectic at best.  When we went to the appliance store the kids were running in different directions, touching everything, Kat wanted to use the potty then wouldn’t go, then ask to go again, and to top it off Reece had a pee accident even though he had tried to potty minutes before.

We still needed to figure out the counters and tile and didn’t feel like having an appliance store repeat.  Our monthly date night was coming up so we ended up using the time to go to the granite showroom and tile store.  The glamour!  We picked three quartz samples we liked and requested a quote and brought home some tile samples so we could pick based off the finalized counter choice.  Our hope was that one of the three quartz prices would be much cheaper therefore making the decision for us.  Turned out the difference was within $200 so cost wasn’t really a huge factor. 

Quartz Choices
Our top 3 picks

After much flip flopping I made a decision.  It may seem so simple to simply call and let the granite place know what our pick is, but for some reason when you have kids phone calls and emails are such a pain.  After about a week of Rich or I promising to order the counter “today” I finally sent an email.  On to picking a sink and order the tile as well!  We obviously waited another 2 or 3 weeks before I could finally bring the tile samples back to the store and order the backsplash.  

During the procrastination period of tile ordering, we checked with the contractor that the sink we wanted would fit the space.  It was then that we, sadly, realized maybe we should have picked an apron sink prior to the cabinets being delivered since they would have needed to know that beforehand.  Scratch the apron sink, boo!  We checked out a showroom with tons of faucets and sink options, but they never sent us quotes. Only extremely annoying since we had to bring the kids this time and it was pretty close to our appliance store experience.  

After checking online we found their prices were about twice as much for the same sink at Home Depot or Amazon sooo… Off to Home Depot we went, with the kids.  After a few pictures and lots of screaming and crying we made a hasty exit.  Luckily, we could take what we found from the Depot and check reviews on Amazon in the quiet of our home after bedtime.  The sink was delivered the very next day!

Kat and Reece try to cramp into the cart
Fun at Home Depot

Once most of the decisions had come together we got a start date and the days leading up to it were spent packing our kitchen.  Luckily I had a day where Reece was at preschool while Kat was at daycare, so I got 2 hours of packing started.  And by started I mean, I moved all the crap in our attic that was in the way, blocking the stairs, out of the way.  Our attic is huge.  The small amount of things we do have up there my husband had “organized.”  Which means, it was a hot mess.  Baby clothes tossed on top of boxes, holiday decorations lying across the stairs.  Good thing I had all this kid free time to clear up the kitchen! Oh wait…

Kitchen dining room renovation
Our makeshift Kitchen in the dining room during the renovation.

After I picked up Reece from his long 3 hour day at preschool, we had lunch, and he napped for 3 hours, so I actually did get a lot accomplished then.  The rest of the packing happened the Saturday night and Sunday before the demo.  Saturday we stayed up until 11 packing up, then the next day my brother came by and took the kids to lunch for 2 hours so we could wrap up packing.  Uncle Matt got lucky and Kat had a huge blowout so they didn’t get to go to the park together, but at least we finished what we needed to do.

We were, ready for demo day!!!  Ha… Not really…  Stay tuned for Week One!

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